Experiences
Let's Play
I love novelty and unusual experiences. They're what make life interesting. This point system is my way of encouraging the kind of dates that excite me: trying something new, going somewhere beautiful, or doing something we'll both remember.
Rack up points by taking me on adventures. Collect enough and unlock a reward.
How to Score Points
+1 point per date (freebie)
Food & Drink
- Michelin-starred restaurant: 1 point per star
Los Angeles
- Vespertine: 4 points
Bay Area
- Ju-ni, Kusakabe, or Omakase: 3 points
- Lazy Bear: 4 points
- Atelier Crenn: 5 points
- Quince: 5 points
- French Laundry: 5 points
- SingleThread Farm: 5 points
New York City
- Le Coucou: 3 points
- Masa, Joji, or Noz: 4 points
- Jungsik: 5 points
- Per Se: 5 points
Travel & Adventure
- Overnight on the Orient Express: 12 points
- Dog sledding: 8 points
- Hot springs in Iceland or fjords in Norway: 15 points
- Visit a country I haven't been to: 10 points
- See the aurora borealis: 10 points
Culture & Fun
- Runway show: 10 points
- Art Basel: 6 points
- British Museum: 5 points
- Strip club: 4 points
- Getty Center: 3 points
- Met Cloisters: 3 points
- City Museum in St. Louis: 4 points
- Ballet, symphony, or show: 2 points
- Gallery opening or museum I haven't been to: 1 point
Unique Experiences
- Mile high club in a private jet: 10 points
- Milking a cow (here?): 5 points
- Shopping date: 4 points
- Trio date: 3 points
Note for optimizers: If an experience qualifies for multiple categories, you'll receive points only for the highest-value one. For example, hot springs in Iceland counts as both visiting a new country (10 points) and hot springs (15 points), so you'd get 15 points, not 25.
Rewards
- 24 points: Your next 24-hour date at the 16-hour rate ($12k instead of $17k)
- 40 points: Weekend getaway at 24-hour pricing
- 60 points: Five-day vacation at weekend pricing
